On this very day, nine years ago, I cried my way up to the alter to exchange vows with my husband to be. I guess that I had better clarify that statement. : ) I wasn’t crying out of fear or reconsideration. I was crying because that is who I am…a blubbering emotional wreck when it comes to anything that is important and meaningful to me. I knew very early on in my life exactly what I wanted and expected out of my marriage. Well, what you want and what you get are never quite exact. Over these last nine years we have certainly seen our share of triumphs and challenges. That said, we have never wavered on the commitment to face these things together. If there is one thing that I firmly and whole heartedly believe in…it is staying true to your promises. If you take a vow…mean it! Marriage is not always easy. Truth be told, it can be downright difficult at moments. But what you have to remember is that every marriage tends to have seasons and when you find yourself in the dead of winter…dream of the summer! Know and believe that the rain will end and the sun will shine again! When ever I am asked for wedding advice, I always say the same exact thing…”You must remember to clock in to your marriage every single day. The catch is, you can never clock out!” If you follow that rule you will be successful!
As my husband and I celebrated our 9 year anniversary today I felt a great sense of pride in the simple fact that we are here together on this day…older, wiser, better, still growing, still learning and ultimately still committed! I believe in marriage and everything that it stands for. And as much as I love weddings and all of the excitement and celebration that comes along with that day…the MARRIAGE is what you are striving for…it is what is important and validating! Today, I am extremely proud to celebrate nine years. I feel a great sense of accomplishment and honor. And best of all…we are looking forward to the big ten year in Jamaica! Yippee!
I absolutely LOVE that picture of you two!! Jamaica should be tons of fun!!
Aww congrats! Hope yall had a wonderful day.
How pretty are you? : ) I couldn't make the slide show work in your last post. I am going to keep clicking old posts though because I want to see more of your pictures.
We just booked our cruise (leaving in Jan.) we are going to Jamaica! I’ll let you know how it goes. :)